feat: confirm metadata and protocols needed in waitForRemotePeer

[weboko]

Problem

While we wait to confirm particular shard we should also check for enabled protocols.

Solution

Add checks.

Notes

• Related to feat(lightPush): improve peer usage and improve readability #2155 (comment)

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size-limit report 📦

Path	Size	Loading time (3g)	Running time (snapdragon)	Total time
Waku node	83.62 KB (0%)	1.7 s (0%)	1.3 s (-18.6% 🔽)	2.9 s
Waku Simple Light Node	135.46 KB (-0.03% 🔽)	2.8 s (-0.03% 🔽)	2.4 s (-4.32% 🔽)	5.1 s
ECIES encryption	22.94 KB (0%)	459 ms (0%)	839 ms (+69.71% 🔺)	1.3 s
Symmetric encryption	22.39 KB (0%)	448 ms (0%)	1.1 s (+23.03% 🔺)	1.5 s
DNS discovery	72.28 KB (0%)	1.5 s (0%)	1.6 s (+31.84% 🔺)	3 s
Peer Exchange discovery	73.88 KB (0%)	1.5 s (0%)	1.6 s (+42.33% 🔺)	3.1 s
Local Peer Cache Discovery	67.63 KB (0%)	1.4 s (0%)	1.3 s (+5.2% 🔺)	2.7 s
Privacy preserving protocols	74.82 KB (0%)	1.5 s (0%)	1.6 s (+56.78% 🔺)	3.1 s
Waku Filter	78.67 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.8 s (+22.61% 🔺)	3.3 s
Waku LightPush	76.89 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.4 s (+3.5% 🔺)	3 s
History retrieval protocols	75.97 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.5 s (-3.59% 🔽)	3 s
Deterministic Message Hashing	7.38 KB (0%)	148 ms (0%)	564 ms (+172.11% 🔺)	712 ms