fix(templateRef): delay setting the ref value if wrapped in Suspense

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close #4930

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Size Report

Bundles

File	Size	Gzip	Brotli
runtime-dom.global.prod.js	100 kB (+42 B)	38 kB (+5 B)	34.2 kB (+46 B)
vue.global.prod.js	159 kB (+42 B)	57.9 kB (+8 B)	51.4 kB (-1 B)

Usages

Name	Size	Gzip	Brotli
createApp (CAPI only)	47 kB (+42 B)	18.3 kB (+12 B)	16.7 kB (+14 B)
createApp	55 kB (+42 B)	21.3 kB (+9 B)	19.4 kB (+25 B)
createSSRApp	59 kB (+42 B)	23 kB (+9 B)	20.9 kB (-2 B)
defineCustomElement	59.8 kB (+42 B)	22.9 kB (+12 B)	20.8 kB (-52 B)
overall	68.7 kB (+42 B)	26.4 kB (+8 B)	23.9 kB (-42 B)

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