chore(deps): update tonic monorepo to 0.12.0 #23756

Job	Run time
Check if Build	3s
Check Examples	1m 24s
Test AWS Lambda Build	2m 55s
Run Tests (Cloudflare)	7m 58s
Run Tests (WASM)	4m 49s
Draft Release	0s
Outputs matrix used for cross compilation / setup-matrix	22s
Run Tests on linux-x64-gnu	1m 27s
Run Tests on linux-x64-musl	2m 51s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-gnu	3m 40s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-musl	3m 47s
Run Tests on linux-ia32-gnu	3m 23s
Run Tests on darwin-arm64	4m 24s
Run Tests on darwin-x64	4m 21s
Run Tests on win32-x64-msvc	9m 43s
Run Tests on win32-arm64-msvc	4m 46s
Run Tests on win32-ia32-msvc	10m 39s
Release (AWS Lambda)	0s
Release	0s
Publish NPM main package	0s
Semantic Release	0s
build-and-push-image	0s
Homebrew Release	0s
	1h 6m 32s

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