feat(sink): support es sink partial update

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What's changed and what's your intention?

We will send all the columns every time we update, which will cause the load of es to become high, after this pr, es sink will judge the columns of update, and only send the modified columns

And in #19919, introduced a compatibility issue that we fixed by setting default values for type in this pr

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