Use zmq-anyio #2789

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 48s
Make SDist	26s
test_docs	47s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	5m 0s
Test Lint	52s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	15m 31s
Test Minimum Versions	28s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	1m 17s
Test Prereleases	2m 36s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 39s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 56s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	3m 38s
link_check	3m 30s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	14m 46s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	2m 29s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 47s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	15m 24s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	15m 24s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	1m 29s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	3m 37s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	2m 7s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 22s
coverage	0s
tests_check	2s
	1h 45m 55s

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