Use zmq-anyio #2767

Job	Run time
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 24s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 23s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	3m 5s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 37s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 46s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	2m 58s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	16m 31s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 40s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 5s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 20s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	3m 39s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	3m 36s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	2m 59s
check_release	1m 41s
link_check	3m 25s
Make SDist	26s
test_docs	38s
Test Lint	1m 1s
Test Minimum Versions	34s
Test Prereleases	2m 24s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 47s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 16s
coverage	0s
tests_check	2s
	1h 49m 17s

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