Use zmq-anyio #2766

Job	Run time
Make SDist	24s
check_release	1m 49s
link_check	3m 36s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 23s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 35s
test_docs	43s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	4m 0s
Test Lint	1m 19s
Test Minimum Versions	38s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 46s
Test Prereleases	2m 31s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 42s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 47s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	3m 13s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	16m 43s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	5m 27s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 29s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	3m 8s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	3m 0s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	3m 15s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 11s
coverage	0s
tests_check	4s
	1h 52m 47s

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