refactor(query): use arrow-flight to exchange datas

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Summary

Migrate exchange common-arrow flight to arrow-flight.

Note:
This change is incompatible if you are running nodes with old versions and new versions in the same cluster, because the old version does not recognize the new compression types.

You can use set global query_flight_compression = 'none' if you still want to have different query version nodes in the same cluster.

Tests

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Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
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ClickBench Report

• hits: https://benchmark.databend.com/clickbench/pr/16657/11470485243/hits.html
• tpch: https://benchmark.databend.com/clickbench/pr/16657/11470485243/tpch.html