[FLINK-36580][pipeline-connector-mysql] Fix column.[in|ex]clude.list parameter causing schema inconsistency

[MOBIN-F]

When users need to ignore some privacy fields or large fields from the collection end, column.include.list/column.exclude.list may be used. At this time, the pipeline may fail due to schema inconsistency.

source:
  type: mysql
  ....
  debezium.column.exclude.list: test_db.test_table.big_col

transform:
  - source-table: test_db.test_table
  projection: \*
  description: project fields and filter 

error will be reported:

1. ArrayIndexOutOfBoundsException

Caused by: java.lang.ArrayIndexOutOfBoundsException: 33370909
    at org.apache.flink.cdc.common.data.binary.BinarySegmentUtils.getLongMultiSegments(BinarySegmentUtils.java:731)
    at org.apache.flink.cdc.common.data.binary.BinarySegmentUtils.getLong(BinarySegmentUtils.java:721) 

2. columns are not aligned properly