Detect the correct ABI tag for the debug free-threaded build of Python

Swap the `t` and `d` flags to ensure that `t` comes first. This is due
to https://github.com/pypa/packaging/blob/28e7da78f6f73b4856260e24051b35a4517c0149/src/packaging/tags.py#L180.

delvewheel/_dll_list.py

@@ -61,7 +61,7 @@ def platform_tag_to_type(cls, tag: str) -> typing.Optional['MachineType']:
     # current and future Python versions through 3.99
     'cp3(9|1[0-2]|(1[3-9]|[2-9][0-9])t?)-win_a(md|rm)64': {'vcruntime140.dll', 'vcruntime140_1.dll'},
     'cp3(9|1[0-2]|(1[3-9]|[2-9][0-9])t?)-win32': {'vcruntime140.dll'},
-    'cp3((9|1[0-2])d|(1[3-9]|[2-9][0-9])dt?)-win(32|_a(md|rm)64)': {'vcruntime140d.dll', 'ucrtbased.dll'},
+    'cp3((9|1[0-2])d|(1[3-9]|[2-9][0-9])t?d)-win(32|_a(md|rm)64)': {'vcruntime140d.dll', 'ucrtbased.dll'},
     'pypy3([7-9]|1[0-9]|[2-9][0-9])_pp73-win_amd64': {'vcruntime140.dll'},
 
     # older versions of Python